It’s continually tugging at that thread that will cause you to unravel. “Self-harm isn’t always about causing physical pain. Hypersexual expressions often fall on the extreme ends of the sexuality spectrum, which are self-harmful, but they can also take more subtle forms, like over-indulgence in casual sex, which people might not even consider harmful or a cause of concern. Feeling desired for who I am and the intimacy of just being together is powerful, and it eventually started to make sense.” Thankfully, he helped me understand that this wasn’t the case at all. I felt immediately unattractive, almost undesirable to him… like there was something wrong with me that made him turn down something that was a staple for every person I’d ever dated.
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So, when I finally found a partner who didn’t just want me for convenient sex, I didn’t know how to react. She said, “for a while, I thought I was having a lot of casual sex because I had a high sex drive which I considered normal. A woman that was interviewed by me for writing this blog, opened up about her experience with casual sex. Subtle forms of this pattern can also be observed in the “hookup culture” or excessive “casual sex” people partake in these days in the name of sexual autonomy, modernity, and liberation. It becomes a cycle of finding new people to have sex with, thus feeling worthy, and so on.
Thus, when their sexual partners leave, feelings of worthlessness might resurface, and this only pushes them further down the rabbit hole of obsession with sex. If/when he hurts me, it’s because I believe I deserve it.” This can also be observed when people conflate their worth with the amount of sexual validation or attention they get from others, along with the degree of interest others show in them sexually. For example, Missa D said, “ I will trade access to my body for someone to just hold me for a few minutes. People with hypersexual urges tend to put themselves in dangerous situations, only for fleeting moments of physical intimacy. He asserted that “troubled women are the best in bed,” which throws light on the sick mentality of some men who go around looking for women with a history of sexual abuse because they assume such women are “easy” or “sexually experienced.” This also reminds me of what Donald Trump once said while referring to Lindsay Lohan. Here, hypersexuality takes an extremely self-destructive form and, the worst part is that it leaves the victims to suffer in isolation because of how stigmatized “sexuality” and “sex” are.
However, in reality, these situations are never really about the victim’s sexual happiness or gratification. It feels liberating to them, and this feeling of liberation acts as a catalyst for hypersexual expressions. However, in reality, many survivors of sexual violence, including aforementioned YouTuber Kat Blaque, tend to engage more in sexual activities to empower themselves by sex, something that disempowered them in the past. A common-sense notion of the “expected” response to sexual violence will be repulsion to sex or toned-down sexuality. A taboo reaction to sexual violence and trauma is hypersexuality, which might be hard to believe at first. Something that a lot of people may not be familiar with is the relationship between hypersexuality and sexual violence.
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